Friday, August 17, 2012

ISN'T A BOUGHT LESSON BETTER?

     I know some of you wonder, what makes me the "authority" on relationships, dating and what a woman should and should not do in a relationship, etc?  The answer to the question is that I have either "been" that woman that I speak about or I "know" that woman.  In order to be able to give advice you have to know what your talking about and believe me, I wouldn't tell you anything wrong.
     I have often said that I am not an angel and truth be told, I have been through some things as far as men are concerned.  Throughout my life, I have seen women make the wrong choices and I have made some, as well.  The difference between myself and the women that I try to advise through my blog is that I have learned from my mistakes and the mistakes of others and I have made every effort not to repeat the same mistakes and made changes in my life.
     At the beginning of this year, I decided to work on ME.  I felt that it was time to get myself together, physically and emotionally.  During this time, I lost 30 pounds and as far a men and relationships were concerned, I did a whole 360.  I made the decision to not settle for bullshit and not put up with bullshit.  I decided to have higher expectations and require more of those that are in my life.
     When I write my post, I am simply trying to impart wisdom to women who may need it.  I hope that I am not coming across too preachy because that is not my intention.  I simply hope that the things that I write will shed light on issues that you may have never really given any thought to or help you in a situation that you didn't know how to handle.  They say the best lessons are bought ones and I am just trying to give you some lessons for free.
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16 comments:

  1. Some people might find you to be a strong dose of medicine but I find your candor refreshing. I hope there are those who benefit from your honesty.

    Fun picture of Doris Day with your post.

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  2. SO glad you found my blog so I could read yours! LOVE IT!! :) We single moms need to stick together!! :)

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    1. I am glad that you enjoyed my blog, as I did yours as well. Your don't be a stranger and YES, we need to stick together!!

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  3. Continue to give advice. I used to feel bad about airing my dirty laundry on my blog! But then I realized how much I was helping people that were in my situation. How my experiences helped others! So it helps!

    Sharmia
    www.thesearch4therealme.com

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  4. Well go head sista! Keep on keeping it real!
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  5. Congrats, you have been nominated on my blog for an award!!! http://handfullofstamps.blogspot.com/2012/08/thanks-so-much-you-made-my-day.html

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    1. Thank You!!!!! I am so excited!! I am heading over now!

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  6. Great for you working on you ... we all need to do that! Visiting from MBC. http://mometimes.wordpress.com/

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    1. Thanks for stopping by Cindy and I will be right over!!

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  7. Amen!! I know a few women that should read this post of yours! Good for you, for working on you. I am living proof that when you take the time and work on yourself, the bullshit stops. I believe what you put out in the world, you get back. I myelf had to learn, if a man does not respect you, move on. This is great advice that you are giving women.

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  8. Like you, I feel like I am a good one to give advice beccause I've done it all wrong up until now, so I know what NOT to do, which in turn gives me all authority to tell anyone how to do it RIGHT. that make sense?

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