I know some of you wonder, what makes me the "authority" on relationships, dating and what a woman should and should not do in a relationship, etc? The answer to the question is that I have either "been" that woman that I speak about or I "know" that woman. In order to be able to give advice you have to know what your talking about and believe me, I wouldn't tell you anything wrong.
I have often said that I am not an angel and truth be told, I have been through some things as far as men are concerned. Throughout my life, I have seen women make the wrong choices and I have made some, as well. The difference between myself and the women that I try to advise through my blog is that I have learned from my mistakes and the mistakes of others and I have made every effort not to repeat the same mistakes and made changes in my life.
At the beginning of this year, I decided to work on ME. I felt that it was time to get myself together, physically and emotionally. During this time, I lost 30 pounds and as far a men and relationships were concerned, I did a whole 360. I made the decision to not settle for bullshit and not put up with bullshit. I decided to have higher expectations and require more of those that are in my life.
When I write my post, I am simply trying to impart wisdom to women who may need it. I hope that I am not coming across too preachy because that is not my intention. I simply hope that the things that I write will shed light on issues that you may have never really given any thought to or help you in a situation that you didn't know how to handle. They say the best lessons are bought ones and I am just trying to give you some lessons for free.
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At the beginning of this year, I decided to work on ME. I felt that it was time to get myself together, physically and emotionally. During this time, I lost 30 pounds and as far a men and relationships were concerned, I did a whole 360. I made the decision to not settle for bullshit and not put up with bullshit. I decided to have higher expectations and require more of those that are in my life.
When I write my post, I am simply trying to impart wisdom to women who may need it. I hope that I am not coming across too preachy because that is not my intention. I simply hope that the things that I write will shed light on issues that you may have never really given any thought to or help you in a situation that you didn't know how to handle. They say the best lessons are bought ones and I am just trying to give you some lessons for free.
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