Sunday, August 12, 2012

This Is What Happens When You Try To Turn a Ho Into a Housewife



     DANG!  They have only been married for a month and Chad Ochocino (Johnson) has been arrested for domestic battery involving his wife, Evelyn Lozada.  Reportedly the argument started when Evelyn found a receipt for condoms in their Maserati.  During the argument, Evelyn reported that Chad headbutted her and she received a 3" laceration on her forehead.  As a result of his arrest, the Miami Dolphins have released him from his contract.   My question to Chad would be, "Damn, how could you be so careless to leave a receipt for condoms laying around?  Then I have to ask myself, "Did you really expect anything better from him?"
     If you have ever watched a couple of episodes of "Basketball Wives" then I am sure that you have witnessed the antics of Evelyn and her friends.  To see a group of women, often lead by Evelyn, cuss out, throw things and physically fight one another is ridiculous.  Evelyn was often at the center of these fights and after hearing about the situation between her and Chad, I have to wonder if things REALLY went down the way that she said they did and if so, then Karma is a MF, isn't it?
     Now before some of you get all worked up, let me state for the record, I do NOT condone domestic violence. I don't think that any man should put their hands on a woman.  However, when you deal with a woman who has a track record for drama and violence like Evelyn, something of this nature was bound to happen sooner or later.
     Let me break it down for those of you who don't know the history of Evelyn...she had a 10 year relationship with NBA player, Antonie Walker during which they were engaged.  Documented on "Basketball Wives," she confessed to sleeping with NBA player, Kenny Anderson while he was still married to now ex-wide, Tammi Roman.  She met Chad on Twitter and they corresponded by Skype and phone.  As documented on the show, "Basketball Wives," her first time meeting Chad, she told him that she did not need the hotel room that he got her and that she would be staying with him.  They had sex the first day she actually meet him in person.
     On the show, she has jumped over tables, thrown bottles and fought other women over dumb stuff like gossip.  She has shown herself to be violent and hot headed in the public eye.
     Now I said all that to say this, as a single mother of a daughter, Evelyn should have set a better example.  The image that she portrayed on "Basketball Wives" was despicable and she should be ashamed of herself. Not only did she portray herself to be a bully and very unlady like, to allow yourself to be filmed telling a man that you just met face to face that you would be staying with him and let him carry you to the bedroom is embarrassing.
     She knew what she was getting into when she decided to marry Chad because they discussed him cheating and damn near an open marriage on the show.  Per their conversation, he agreed to tell her if he wanted to have sex with someone else.  I don't know any women who would go for that!
     We may never know what "actually" happened between the two of them unless one of them decides to make a statement but in the meantime there are somethings that we do know:  they should never have gotten married, Chad is now unemployed because of all the drama, Karma is a bitch and most importantly YOU CAN'T TURN A HO INTO A HOUSEWIFE. 

12 comments:

  1. hahaha good one. Thanks for shedding light on the story. We don't have that show here in Canada. Too bad for Chad, now he jobless.
    Karma is truely a bitch

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    1. You are lucky that you don't get all that stupid drama on television. Yes, karma is a bitch!!

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  2. Wow...I bet she'll be the first to talk about the situation! lol Clearly she is an attention whore, having opened her legs to any NBA player that would take her!

    While it's not cool for a man to put his hands on a female, I bet she provoked him.

    Oh well...sucks for both of em'

    --Alexis Marie--
    Journey2Milfhood.blogspot.com

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    1. I am sure that she will, too! Look like Kim K. lasted longer than these two! LOL

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  3. I'm not advocating hitting,but every man out there can agree that Evelyn has a nasty mouth and nasty-ass attitude,and chics like those are the classic victims of battery.They don't know when to quit the attitude and STFU!

    Plus she's a New Yorker.I'm from NYC,so I know chics like Evelyn attitude-wise.

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    1. You hit it right on the head, Kenny. her mouth and her attitude suck!!

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  4. I agree with you -they should not have gotten married! Anyway thanks for stopping by my blog and don't be a stranger!

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  5. I understand Evelyn has a history of violence and not always being the sweetest person on the show. I still don't think it's right to assume she provoked him or deserved to be assaulted by him because karma is a B if he actually did do it. I think taking that stance is dangerous in the sense that other women who may have a similar history to Evelyn and are now in an abusive relationship will be hesitant to come out and admit it and seek help in getting out of it because they fear they'll receive the backlash Evelyn is getting now.

    Yeah she's wrong for the way she's behaved on the show, there's no doubting that. Still doesn't give Chad the right to put his hands on her or for us to dismiss the incident as her getting what she deserved...just my opinion...you can read more on what I think of this issue on my blog at http://momonthegrind.blogspot.com

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    1. Charlotte,
      I appreciate your point of view and you are right. We shouldn't put it all on her behavior. I will go over and check out your thoughts.

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